chaitra asked, i feel lonely.my engagement broke .what do i need to do
Love Guru answers, So what honey! It's not the end of the world -- in fact, you got saved from a relationship that would have made you unhappy. Enjoy life -- hang out with friends, take a vacation, start dating again. You'll be fine!
Coolstorm asked, hi,i am 22 years and am working in a MNC.I am a Hindu. I am in a relationship with a Muslim girl for last 3 years and we love each other a lot. My parents are looking for my marriage and I dont have plans to marry now and I cannot tell them about this girl also as she is also completing her MBA. I plan to marry this girl? What to do? pls help
Love Guru answers, Tell your parents it's too early and you refuse to get married right away. When you both are ready to wed, tell them. I'm not guessing they'll take it too well, but sometimes life gives you tough choices to make.
rani asked, Hi This is Rani..Pls advice me…I am in love with a guy who is living in abroad. He is frank with me but he has a habit of drinking once in a week.I told him if he can stop drinking I will marry him. But he is telling that I am very frank that I want to drink atleast once in a week.I told him many times that my family will not accept a guy who drinks. But he thinks drinking is not so bad as for he is concerned. I don’t know wat to do with tis issue…pls tell……
Love Guru answers, Rani, stop making an issue where there isn't one. Social drinking is not frowned upon. It's not like he's sitting with a bottle every day! So what if he goes out once a week and has a couple? If at the beginning of the relationship you start imposing unreasonable conditions it will never work out. There's no need to say anything to your family -- it's not like he is a drinker anyway! He only does it socially, so I don't think it will be a problem.
SEENU asked, hI LG i M CONFUSED A LOT AND WANT SOME HELP FROM YOU. i HAD AN AFFAIR WITH A GIRL UPTO LAST YEAR SOME HOW WE BROKE OFF BUT 6 MONTHS BACK SHE CAME BACK AND SHE NEEDED ME AND I REFUSED COZ OF FRICTION WE HAD AND NOW I FEEL i NEED HER IN MY LIFE BUT SHE IS NOT RESPONDING SHE JUST CALLS UP WHEN SHE HAS SOME WORK WITH ME PLEASE HELP ME LG........
Love Guru answers, Well, it's time for you to eat some humble pie. Tell her that you thoroughly regret saying no to her earlier and that at the time you made the wrong decision. Beg her forgiveness and tell her you do want her back and didn't realise how much she meant to you till now. If she still feels for you, she will relent. Tell her that if there are still mutual feelings, you both should put your egos aside and get back instead of playing cat and mouse games.
partap asked, Hi....i'm already anggaged but now i'm in love with another girl.....wht to do
Love Guru answers, Why did you get engaged to someone you don't love? You're in a fix, but examine the situation carefully before acting. Are you sure it's love and not just passing attraction? If it is, you should not ruin your fiance's life by marrying her and then cheating behind her back. It's better to break it off now.
Suraj asked, I am having 14 year married life and before marriage, I had a affair with a beautiful girl but marriage could not materialised due to some misunderstanding between both of us. Now since then I am feeling guilty in my mind and want to say Sorry to her but she is not ready to talk to me. I tried only one time. She is married now and having children. Kindly advice me about my future course of action.
Love Guru answers, Look, Suraj, you're happily married and so is she. If you're feeling guilty, just put your thoughts into a card or email and send it to her, apologising for back then and wishing her the best in life. Whether she chooses to respond or not, your mind will be clear. Don't try becoming friends again, though. It will put pressure on both your marriages. The past is in the past. Leave it there.
mahak asked, Hi LG, I am a muslim woman. I have a 9 yrs. old son. I left my husband because of my in –laws they always interfere in our personal life as well as my mother-in-law hates me don’t know y? but she always complaint my husband about me & my husband beat me instead of listen my side. He always told me he loves me very much but he never felt guilty when he beat me. He always pointing me. According to him always my mistake is there he never blame his family. did he really love me? I love him very much & I couldn’t tolerate all that, it hurts me lot & I have no other choice instead of leaving him. Is this my mistake? Now my husband married again due to his family pressure & he hates me. He never met my son in between these days. & not giving me maintenance as per court order. I miss him very much What should I do?
Love Guru answers, File for divorce from this creep. He is a mamma's boy and a woman-beater. And he married again without sparing a thought for you. Be strong and learn to be independent. Enforce the court order with the help of the cops and if he threatens you in any manner, file a complaint against him. Don't even think of saving such a dysfunctional marriage. It's not too late for you to fall in love again. Someone who truly loves you will accept you the way you are -- and your son too.
Also see: 'Marriage is in shambles without love or sex'
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