sunitha asked, hi LG.even last time when u came u did not answer my Q. i am my ex-boy friend are married but we do often see each other and even have an intimacy. do you think is this wrong or right.
Love Guru answers, Sunitha, that's a stupid question and you know it. Even you know the answer -- it's wrong. Who is ever going to tell you that cheating on your husband is right? And your boyfriend is cheating on his wife too. It's deplorable.
NYATI asked, hi, sir, this is my 3rd time i am writing plss. help me na, i love a one guy some time i am feel he also love me, but i dont know i dont realize, he never give me time for talking or msg.'s he never rpl. my phone call or msg. from last 3 month we r trying spend a time with each other but he has no time, pls. tell me i dont want to loose him pls. give me suggetion
Love Guru answers, Correction, darling -- for the last three months you've tried to spend time with him. And he hasn't responded. Why do you want a fair-weather boyfriend, who is indifferent towards you whenever he chooses to be? Stop being a doormat. I would suggest you stop calling and messaging altogether. If he really loves you, he will call or message to ask what's wrong and you can tell him you won't make any time for him unless he does the same. If he doesn't get back to you, get the message -- he's not interested, so stop trying to force him to be.
coloredstar asked, Hi Love Guru
Can you help me to find out the actual feeling about me in a woman.How Can I know that what does she think about me.She workd in office where I usually go for my work.She pretends to be very close to me.On telephone she tries to involve me in some adult talk and push me to talk about incidents where some sexual matters are involved and I try to avoid to talk on those maters but some how or the other she brings in those matter in our telephonic conversation.Does it mean some thing? Should I propose her.How can I know what exactly is in her mind about me.She also accepted my few gifts that i gave her.
Love Guru answers, How many more hints do you want? The woman is obviously interested in you.
Gk asked, Hi,
i am having relation with a girl for 3 years...but till date she has not shown any great care of concern towards me...i m at the least priority...1.parents2.office3.friends and relatives and if all of them are busy then comes my turn 4.myslf...and during whole days she never calls or message...i feel irritated...waht to do..
Love Guru answers, I just answered a similar question from Nyati. I'd suggest the same in your situation.
yeti asked, i found out my wife exchanged explicit mails, had sexually explicit conversations with her ex after our engagement almost right up to the marriage while she claimed she loved only me. she also says she has been faithful after marriage.
i do want to believe her, but post engagement when i believed her,i was betrayed. she maybe telling the truth, but i not really sure.
i want our marriage to succeed. i have forgiven her but i cant seem to put her betrayal out of my mind.
Love Guru answers, Once bitten, twice shy -- I completely sympathise with your position. She betrayed you once, so now tell her that the only way for her to regain your trust again is to remain faithful and not stray ever again. Over a period of time, you will learn to trust her again, but only if her behaviour encourages it.
neeha asked, hi i am love with 28 yr old unmarried boy myself married my husband have passes way 18 month back is it right what i am doing?
Love Guru answers, You're only 28 and it's already been one and a half years since your husband's death. What happened to him was unfortunate, but it doesn't mean you live the rest of your life as a lonely widow. All the best to you in your new relationship.
sarika asked, my mother in law is very clever. my baby is 4 month old. she do not want i will meet my parents sister & brother. my husband is not talking from last 2 weeks
what i do.
Love Guru answers, Don't let her or anybody else stop you from doing what you feel, especially when it comes to your family. As for your husband, give him a sound warning that if he tries to bully you into doing as his mother says, not only will you go to your parents' house right away with your baby, but you won't come back! They have no right to stop you from meeting your family!
Also see: 'My girlfriend married my family friend'
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