Are you finding it difficult to get over the ex who dumped you for someone else?

In a chat with Get Ahead readers on May 8, Love Guru addressed many such relationship troubles. For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.

Love Guru says, Hi there, folks! Love Guru is here and ready to answer all your questions regarding relationships, heartbreak and attraction! And one request, please -- do not flood the chatroom with your question several times!

ish asked, hey love guru i love one grl and i think she also likes me but i doonno i m not able to start talking with her? i wanna tell her everything? wht shall i do?

Love Guru answers, Is she your friend? If not, it's too early to start using the word 'love'! You're just attracted to her! Become friends first -- get a friend to introduce you or just start up a casual conversation. Once you're in the habit of talking regularly and becoming good friends, see whether you still feel the same way about her and tell her you like her!

SANJIVANI asked, WHY DO THE BOYS CHETEAD TO GIRL WHAT IS THEIR PROBLEMS

Love Guru answers, All boys don't cheat on girls, Sanjivani. Similarly, all girls are not always faithful to their boyfriends! Don't generalise your opinion of men and women -- each person is different and has his/ her own set of values.

babu asked, Hi, We are in a Pretty Tough Situation. We still Love eachother,recently she got married......... I am Trying mY Level best to speak with the Guy Reagarding but my Chwetoo is fearing what to doooooo She Fears Alot...... I dont wanna hurt her nor anybody . being very silent........ But now not able to bear this..... what should i do..........

Love Guru answers, Does your 'Chwetoo', as you call her, have the guts to go against her husband and family? I don't think so, because if she did she wouldn't have been pressured into marriage in the first place! Don't do anything unless she promises to back you up with it!

padmashree asked, I FOUGHT WITH MY LOVERS REGARDING MONEY MATTER BUT I AM STILL MISSING HIM AND I WANT TO GET CLOSER TO HIM, PLEASE TELL ME THE WAY

Love Guru answers, Talk to him. Discuss things in a mature manner and try to work it out.

pearl asked, hi its really strange tht i am feeling for my frnd in such a manner...first of all we became frnds very strangely n n now its been 3yrs we are frnds we have just met 3times but in last meeting n in few conversation am realizing as if i like him or...but wat he thnks i just have no clue n i cant say anything abt it as i dont wanna lose him as my frnd...secondaly i really cant approach him...nor we have any common frnds whose help can be ataken...let me know wat to do

Love Guru answers, Pearl, in such a case you'll just have to get your guts together and let him know how you feel. If you don't have the guts to do it face to face, do it by SMS or email. But I would suggest meeting up a little more often than 3 times in 3 years!

rohan asked, Hi, i had been in love with varsha for 2 yrs,but she left me, when she found some other well-settled guy,and she had also got married, now i cant forget her, i m not able to forget her, even i cant think of marrying someone else, pls, tell, now, what to do ?? i cant make any decision - rohan

Love Guru answers, Rohan, you need to put your mind to getting over this girl. She chose someone else over you, so why do you still pine for her? You deserve someone who gives you all her love and who you can trust! I know it's tough, but thousands of people face heartbreak like yours every day. The strong ones move on, the weak ones remain hung up on the past. Choose who you want to be!

SHAN asked, I AM MARRIED BUT ONCE UPAN A TIME BY MISTAKE ONE GIRL CALL ME AND AFTER THAT I CALL HER ULTIMATE I LOVE HER AND SHE LOVE ME IN PHONE ONLY IT IS GOING ON SINCE 5 YEARS. WHAT I DO ?

Love Guru answers, 5 years? I'd say it's high time the two of you meet! Get together in person and start meeting regularly -- see where the relationship goes from there! Oh and Shan, my answer is provided your question said you were married once upon a time -- if you're still married then I'd say it's ridiculous that you're carrying on like this behind your wife's back! You're doing it just for the thrill of a fling in secret, because you don't even know this girl, you've never met her! only if you're single pursue it, otherwise drop the idea -- and the phone!

PagalDeewana asked, I am 50 years old. Still get attracted to girls half of my age. Is it normal ?

Love Guru answers, Sometimes elderly men do get physically attracted to younger women, but relationship prospects in such cases are bleak. I would suggest you don't act on any of these impulses, as such a large age gap can create a lot of problems in the long run.