Are you at your wits' end trying to make a relationship work?

In a chat with Get Ahead readers on March 6, Love Guru addressed these problems and more! For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.

Love Guru says, Hello, hello people! Welcome to the Love Guru chat! Let's get cracking at those relationship problems!

abcd asked, Hi LG i love 1 girl she alsotalks to me very freely & shares her problems .she has a BF but he is very possesive & she is fed up of him tday i gave him choclate have i done something wrong? i want to propose her when till be right time to propose her? please,please,please sole my problem LG

Love Guru answers, You gave her boyfriend a chocolate or her a chocolate? Either way, a chocolate doesn't exactly scream 'I love you', it's quite common to share it with your firends or gift it to them! Probably her boyfriend is possessive if he knows your intentions! You can propose to her if you want to, but if she does tell her bf it may spell the end of your friendship, so be prepared for that.

M123 asked, Hi LG, I am married 2 weeks back and am still not succesful in having sex with her, I either ejaculate before deep penetration. Is this normal during intial days ? What do u suggest to me?

Love Guru answers, I'm not a sex expert, my dear -- you can always visit a doctor specialising in sexual dysfunction to get to the root of your problem. Don't be ashamed to approach one, because doctors are here to help.

karimulla asked, Hi Guru..I have one very good friend.We will discuss everything in phone about sex also.I want approach with her at least kiss.HOw can I approach ,that is the main problem.Plz help me..Thanks advance.

Love Guru answers, Stop thinking about it so much and during an intimate moment when you meet her, just lean in and do it! But be prepared to be turned down in case she doesn't want to -- you will have to respect her decision.

babu asked, HI tday is my 1 date with gf will it be ok if i kiss her & press her breast?

Love Guru answers, Take things slowly and only do things your girlfriend is comfortable with. If she turns away from you it means she's not ready. Be gentle and don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do.

smileyface asked, Hi LG, I was in a affair a yr back, but since we had caste differences we could not get married and so we broke up. Still for next 6 months he regularly called me and talked. But I thought as it cannot work, he should move ahead so I became rude with him and did not respond properly. Then he too stopped, but since last few months when we talk I feel and later get dreams that he needs me. But he never says that infact talks rude sometimes. But my sixth sense again shows me those signs. I dont know what to do I have talked to him lot many times on that but as his parents dont agree so he wont marry me. I dont understand what to do, as on both sides our parents are searching good proposals for us.

Love Guru answers, Either both of you prepare to stand up to your parents and fight for your love, or then prepare to spend the rest of your lives with two different partners. Nobody said life is fair, sweetie -- sometimes you just have to fight for what is right!

victor asked, i dont want to lose the one i love and care .. she too is aware of this but she is able to respond as she is married but not happy . how can i get her approval, i want to woo her and not lose our friendship as well , i would like to marry her

Love Guru answers, If she is not happy, she should get herself together and walk out on her husband. But I don't adivse pursuing married women -- at the end of the day she is another man's wife and until such time as she is out of the marriage you should be strictly friends.

Don asked, Hi LG, I am a s/w engg. Everyday i go to company by bus. One girl also boards her bus from the same bus stop. I watch her everyday, even she looks at me. Everyday i come 10 mins early and have tea at a small hotel nearby. From 2 days she also comes there and haves tea. I am going crazy about her. I want to talk to her, wannna know her. Please advice how should i approach her. I don't know even her name. Gaumzy.

Love Guru answers, Since she's been seeing you every day, why don't you just start saying 'hello' or 'good morning' whenever you see her? Then one day you can start a casual conversation at the bus stop and take it from there. But don't ask too many prying questions about her life straight away! Take things slowly, exactly like you would with a male friend you're just getting to know.

madhu asked, iam 36yr married wrkg woman with 2 kids,husband living abroad for past 2 yrs job purpose ,he is coming back on this oct.in that 2 yrs i met a 38 yr old married man through net chat,i find him more attractive ,caring man than my husband.than we also start meeting personally that relationship turned into physical.even i once abort his child.i asks him to can we marry but he says society will not aacept this also he never lieave his wife and children,we can enjoy like this.but now i start having guilt feeling,also i become very moody,my temper is always on high,i beat kids without any reason.now my husband coming back i am afraid if he knows this all.i want to get rid off all tat i did.can i tell my husband ?

Love Guru answers, I would suggest you start getting rid of your affair first! This man is having a nice time with you on the side, but at the end of the day he goes home to his wife and children. Stop this right now. If you tell your husband, it will only lead to marital distress, so unless you feel like he may find out from someone else, don't tell him. Instead, focus on being a good wife and mother to your kids to make up for the horrible things you've done.

DIL asked, HI Love GURU, Am in love with girl who is 1.5 years elder than me. She is also loving me. Both of our parents agreed our love. We are going to get marry soon. But our parents dont know the age difference. Will this age difference be a problem in the future ?? Will it affect the sex?

Love Guru answers, It will not affect anything! Do not be ridiculous -- 1.5 years is not even an issue, either in marriage nor in sex!