sandip4rp asked, Hi, I 30 yrs. old I have affaire with a girl since last 6 yrs but due to family pressure from both end i have decided to marry with girl which is recommended by my family, but unfortunately after engagement my family comes to know that my fiancee have already married once in her previous life so they have broke my engagement with her & after all these thing i want to go with my previous girlfriend but she didi not responding me, What should I do????

Love Guru answers, Why should she respond to you? You're not going back to her because you love her more than anyone else, you're going back to her because your marriage plans to someone else didn't work out! Instead of fighting for the one you loved, you gave up on her -- obviously she won't respond. If you want her back now, you'll have to grovel and beg for her forgiveness and promise to marry her despite what anybody says -- and that's assuming she hasn't found someone else!

rajkumar asked, Hi loveGuru, am 25 years old. I loved a girl aged 19 and we two love each other with utmost caring and affection. Since we are from different cast i approached her mother and she also gave assurance to our marriage. After one and half years of wonderful relationship. Suddenly the girl expressed an extreme dislike in our relation and said that she is not interested and the reason for break up is also silly for me. Could you please help me out what to do next?

Love Guru answers, Either she has grown out of the relationship (she's only 19 -- it may be too soon for her to decide who she'll spend the rest of her life with), or she's met someone else who she's interested in. Another reason she may be saying this is because she dislikes something about your relationship. Tell her that she at least owes you the truth and that you will accept it gracefully, whatever the case may be. If it's something that can be worked on, work on it to save your relationship.

geetu asked, we have relationship for 4 yrs,we do all sorts things together even sex.now he saying my parents don,t like very forward and open minded girls so he like to marry the girl of his parents choice.but i can,t take it easy.i am in big tension now.i cant forget him.we stopped talking ,meeting for 2 months.he don,t call me neither accept my call.what i do.

Love Guru answers, Geetu, you were dating a creep. He had a good time with you for four years and will now settle with a girl of his parents' choice. He took advantage of you. You shouldn't want to get back with him at all. Take the high road, dear -- stop calling him and messaging him. It will be hard, but move on -- enjoy life. You're still young and you will learn to love again soon.

siju asked, Hi LG, i am married for last 3.5 years but till date i am not a happy man. its not related to any physical problems between us but its the peace of mind. I don't know why my wife doesn't understands me and she always does which i dislikes. i am totally fed up of all these. The only reason I am still holding the break up is my kid. What to do.Plz help.

Love Guru answers, Siju, why must you impose your likes and dislikes on your wife? You need to understand that everybody is an individual and chooses to do things a certain way. Compromise is the name of the game. Try it.

sony asked, just now my fianacee told me i want to marry with you but i am not in a position to marry her. because i have heard with somebody she is homosexual tell me what to do

Love Guru answers, You've heard? What makes you think the rumour is true? And if it's from a credible source, don't you think that you should confront her about it instead of taking an uninformed decision?

Anand asked, I was in love with a gal and we had an affair for atleast 3 years. We were living like husband and wife. Then suddenly we break off as she went with another guy and married with him. But this event hurt me very much, and still after 3 years of leaving her I Love her madly and always think of her. Just to go away with this couple of months back I got married and I'm feeling nothing for my wife. Its just like an adjustment for me and her. Kindly Suggest and help me out.

Love Guru answers, Look, sometimes when you've loved and then lost someone, you tend to build up their character in your mind so much that everybody else pales in comparison. You need to recollect that your ex had bad points too and she dumped you. Try to see your wife as an individual instead of comparing her to your ex. Learn to appreciate her good points.