Anamika asked, one year back i fell in love with a guy who waas my senior..........we were clear from the very first day that we cant marry.......now he is settled n has to marry some1..........i was well acquainted with this truth but now it is becoming tough 4 me day by day to be just frnds with him......he still considers me as a great support n even discusses all marriage proposals with me but i feel uncomfortable.......i dnt knw wt 2 do???plz tell me..........i m losing my concentration in work.....

Love Guru answers, Why can't you marry? If both of you knew the relationship was doomed from the start, you were foolish to get into it. Tell him how you feel and see what he has to say. Once it's off your chest you'll feel a little better. If he decides to get married to someone else you may consider distancing yourself from him so that you have a chance to get over him.

shrazvi asked, i have a unique problem, i was intereetsed in girl but she married sombody else before i could make up my mind, now she is single again after her seperation from her husband. what shud i do

Love Guru answers, Make up your mind quickly, or you won't get a second chance! If she's already a friend, tell her how you feel. If she's not more than an acquaintance, you may consider getting to know her properly first and then declaring your feelings. But move fast!

raj asked, i am in good relationship with my gf, but from last few days i am getting attracted back to my ex gf? she to is interested what to do.. pls help

Love Guru answers, Don't spoil what you have by being greedy for more.

Peace asked, Hey LG , I am married for the past 2.5 years , mine was a love marriage , after marriage things changed between us and I realised he is not as understanding as he was before marriage . In this phase I got very close to my best friend and we now love each other very much . I have tried to express to my husband as well but he is quite depressed and says he shall never leave me .. what shall I do ?

Love Guru answers, You should have tried to make your marriage work out before falling into someone else's lap so soon. If you don't love your husband and want a divorce, though, he can't really stop you. Talk to a lawyer and file for a divorce if you want to end your marriage. If you want to make it work, on the other hand, call things off with your best friend.

jby asked, had a girl friend. broke up with her. we were physical but just stopped short of doing it. gettin married. the girl knows i had a girl but not the physical part. shd i tell her?

Love Guru answers, If you want to be honest, be honest. Also be prepared to accept your wife's past gracefully. If you both accept the past and focus only on the future, you'll have a secure, loving relationship.

pk asked, After one month of my mirrage, I have found that MY WIFE IS A PSYCHO. She behaves abnormal & is never happy. She quarrels over trifles. My life is become a hell. Please advice.

Love Guru answers, I'm guessing it's an arranged marriage? If things are really as bad as you say, you may consider filing for divorce as soon as possible.

hary asked, Hi, I am 34 years old and am separated and filed for a divorce ..now i am deeply in love with a girl who happens to be my sisters niece... once i told her about my feeling towards her..she replied in affirmative but suddenly she stopped talking to me and then she told me in clear words to leave her alone...how can i win her...i am not able to take her off my mind.........

Love Guru answers, Why did she say yes the first time around? Approach her and ask her to level with you honestly and tell you the truth -- whether she really wants to be with you or not and if not, why.

seeker asked, Hi, i was having close friendship wiht one girl since last 1 year. She was already having one boyfried since last 2 years whom she loves very much. Even though she was having a boy firend me, she proposed me. But i had not accepted her proposal as she was already engaged with someone. But after she left me, i realized that i was also in love with her. So from myside , i proposed her but she rejected at this point. i am not understading that why she rejected me this time, even though she proposed me first. what should i do now ? i m totally in confusion. Please help me. regards,

Love Guru answers, Ask her, she's the only one who can tell you why. She should take her decision soon and settle with either you or him. She can't have both and you need to tell her so. If she's made up her mind to stay with him, though, there's not much you can or should do about it.

rohitkapoor asked, All was going fine with my girlfriend, jus yesterday i wanted to go home early and said her...enuf for today lets go home..thatz it...she is annoyed and since y day didn't take my call...nor is answering my smsms...what do i do ???? help.

Love Guru answers, Tell her not to be so demanding! So you wanted to go home early one day -- big deal. You need to give your partner space in a relationship, not cling to him/ her every minute of the day. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.