Are you struggling to make your relationship work out against all odds?

In a chat with Get Ahead readers on June 19, the Love Guru addressed many such problems. For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.

Love Guru says, Hi, everybody! This is Love Guru, ready to answer your questions and help solve all your relationship problems, so fire away!

pravin asked, hiiii LG... I was not confident to propose & force my love gil... becoz of financial settlement & education... now she is getting married...wat to do?????

Love Guru answers, It's a little late in the day now, Pravin...but if you like you can still approach her and propose. If she feels the same about you she might just agree. Try your luck, but if it doesn't work out, don't be disheartened...people do fall in love again.

HeyLG asked, Hey LG, I am 27 yr old a working professional in MNC, i have high brain and simple life .now i am getiing married in novemeber i like my wd be very much, but in my mind all the past girls comes so many times when i talk to wd be. I love her very much ..and also in the past i have done nothing with any girl except talks ..i am very honest guy as well.but sometimes i felt guilty about it ..sometimes

Love Guru answers, You have nothing to feel guilty about! You've never had a girlfriend and even if you did, that's part of your past. So don't worry about anything and make sure to remember that even if ur fiance has had a boyfriend or two before she met you, it's absolutely fine. The past is the past. Now look to the future.

mohit asked, I am a widower since last 9 years and i lost my wife when i was 45 i am in best of my health, one my friend who remains out of home and india 25 days out of a month his wife wants me to be physical what should i do ?

Love Guru answers, Say no! She's your friend's wife -- don't you care about him? There's nothing wrong with you dating other women or even re-marrying if you want to share your life with somebody else, but steer clear of committed women -- especially friends' wives!

vijay asked, I met my girl friend after 16 years and still she shows something which can not be digested by a man like, she says sweetheart, dearest one and some times pssing kisses too. we often meet also for long drive or in resturants. What she must be thinking now?

Love Guru answers, I'm not sure what you're trying to say. If she's single and you're single and old feelings are re-awakening, no harm in pursuing it. But if either of you is already in a relationship, don't start an affair. Maybe you need to tell her straight in that case that you can't be anything but a friend to her.

lover asked, hi love guru i m fall in love with a woman who have, but she is already merried, and i think she also love me, some time we spend a time alon with eachother and she tries to make a rrelation ship with me but i rejected her, but after this all, i think that i want make a relation ship with her, becoze if i will not do like this, then she will try to other person, and i realy love her what i do

Love Guru answers, A married woman is a married woman. Don't pursue her and if the attraction is proving too much for you, simply don't spend time with her alone.

EASTHORIZON asked, Hi LG, I am married for 1 and a half years now. It was an arranged marriage and I made it very clear to my hubby and his family that I would not quit my job and they were also ok with it. And now all of a sudden they convay by reactions that they prefer me quitting my job. I find no reason for quitting and I have been brought up in a very independent way. The reason they see is that i need to help them at home and be a goody goody wife. I c myself cornered. All these house hold works could be managed by employing a maid, is what i feel. What do I do to convince them?

Love Guru answers, Instead of sidestepping the issue talk to your husband and tell him how you feel. Then tell your in-laws honestly that you'd prefer to keep working and don't mind hiring help for the housework. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do, especially when it comes to your career.

hemubaba1 asked, hi Love Guru..... I am in love with two girls.....Or i can say I love one girl too much but have relation with other one. My parents wants that I will go for arrange marriage. Please tell me what will i do? I am totaly confused.

Love Guru answers, I would suggest you try to pursue a relationship with someone you love and who loves you back -- it's supposed to be a two-way street. And don't be pressured into marriage just to please your parents -- that will be a mistake and your wife will be the one who pays for it.

MR Y asked, Hi Love Guru I broke up with my GF. Though we never crossed the legal limits only chated with her over fone just meet her for couple of times only. Now she is insisting on continuing Though I have said its not possible. are there any legal implication on it

Love Guru answers, I don't know what you mean by 'legal limit', but if you mean you're both under 18 or she's under 18, it depends whether you've been physically involved with her. If you haven't, nothing to worry about. In any case, I doubt she would drag you to court over it! If you want to get out of the relationship, get out of it.

RAJU asked, i had a broken relationship with my gm. i am depressed plz help me guru

Love Guru answers, Everyone is depressed when a relationship goes wrong, my dear. You need to consciously make an effort to move on -- take a trip, hang out with friends, confide in them. As time passes you'll feel better about things.