Is your love life down in the dumps?
You may think that there's no solution to your problems, but Get Ahead's Love Guru is here to help!
In a chat with readers on November 29, Love Guru addressed all kind of relationship troubles. For those of you who missed it, here's the transcript.
Love Guru says, Calling all you love birds out there! Love Guru is in the house, ready to solve all your relationship worries!
aditya asked, hi
luv guru.hru.??sir last time i was too keen to get a reply but gr8 rush cudnt
me get through it.this tim i m sending my quest alot early.sir my prob is
dat.i luv a gurl her name is suneha.she is in my relation.o family members
too will accept this.but my prob is dat ihow can i know dat she luvs me or
not.....whether she luvs me or not?? pls luv guru help me out....
Love Guru answers, Aditya
my friend, you're in a prett-y sticky situation here! Family relations are
usually a no-no, unless it's a very distant, far-off cousin or something!
I would suggest you don't try to find out anything from her -- if you haven't
started out on this relationship yet, don't aspire to do so. You could damage
family ties or your own relationship with this girl.
RahulSharma asked, Hi...I
am doing Engg. in Mumbai and my girlfriend (since school) is studying in
Delhi. Now the problem in this long distance relationship is that she is
very close (emotionally) to one of her seniors and one of her batchmate.
She says she loves me. We meetfor a month every year. She has also had sex
with me. Still, I doubt if she has something for her senior whom she talks
a lot on phone, though she talk to me for hours too....I dont know whether
to trust my heart that she is innocent and love ONLY me or go with my brain
that she is just passing her time with me and her senior both!! Please reply
I am very depresed
Love Guru answers, Okay, this
dude may be interested in your girlfriend. But don't panic! You should just
talk to your gal about this. Don't lose your cool and start acting possessive,
just have an honest chat. And if you feel like she's telling the truth, let
your insecurities go.
pinky asked, hello my
question is i luv my bf, since 5 yrs, we daily have a phn conversation,once
in a week we meet but 1yr back icme to kno abt his parallel affairs and i
just ask him. and even his elder brother kno abut and parents too. but the
way they behave wen i went to his home they dnt kno.and evn dnt say anything
to me. i just want to hear from him that he dnt luv me bcoz a person who
alway taking care of mine or help me to take decision, i discuss my problm
vth him how can some1 do this if he cheat. Now we dnt have ny contact or
even i had not seen him.bt i heard that now he is vth some other girl. now,my
parents r in hurry for my marriage, if smething wrong happen than owcan i
explain that person.im stil waiting 4him. my parents dnt kno nything, idnt
kno what to do how to manage its to confusing can u suggest smething 4me
Love Guru answers, Pinky,
darling, your thinking is wonky! This man cheated on you, let you go and
is dating someone else -- why on earth are you waiting for him! He is scum!
As for marriage, you should tell your parents you're not ready yet and to
give you some time. And start looking at other men! Five years you've wasted
on this cheating dirtbag! Now move on!
ayan asked, Hi
!! My name is Ayan and i have girlfriend whom i love like anything but there
is problem where i sometimes do not trust her bcoz of her past. In her college
days she should like a guy but unfortunately she could carry on bcoz of
the caste problem hence that point of time i had proposed to her and she
said no to me but still i waited for her and we were good friends. after
eight month she proposed me back and i said yes and we are carry on from
that point. but somewhere she loves and is unable to forget the guy still
call her up and she does not want to speak but i know she really loves me
this makes me insecure and i start losing the trust in her. What should I
do ? Plz tell me i am really confused ?????
Love Guru answers, On
one side, you say she still loves this guy and can't forget him. On the other
you say she doesn't even want to speak to him and that she loves you! Listen,
dude -- the girl is with you, she says she loves you, she refuses to maintain
any connection whatsoever with her ex! What more do you want? Learn to curb
your foolish insecurities!
kiran asked, hi i am kiran i have girlfriend i love her much but she likes me as friend only what shell i do
Love Guru answers, My
dear, you can't force your love on this friend of yours. If she is your friend,
chances are, she's known you for a long time and just can't bring herself
to feel the same way about you. Accept it and remain friends. You will eventually
meet someone who feels the same way about you.
John asked, I
love a girl and i think she also but her brother and mother dont like me
as i m having much success as compared to her brother. They like me as her
friend but they hav told her not to think abt me in a relationship way. She
said that she has to follow what they say. and in anger i hav not talked
with her till now. she tried once but i rejected the call. since then we
r apart and now she dont want to talk to me even. can u suggest something??
Love Guru answers, Hey,
Johnny boy. Listen, if the girl refuses to go against her family's wishes,
there's pretty much nothing you can do about it. And not talking to her because
of that was childish. I suggest you call her, apologise to her and ask her
what she feels like doing, independent of her family's wishes. If she loves
you, all you can do is try and convince her. If she still doesn't want to
be with you, it's her choice
Also read: Is your partner being emotionally unfaithful?